Ultimately, this inability to balance his work with his personal life he asked for a transfer out of the Behavioral Analysis Unit (BAU) of the FBI, which he had been pressured to do by FBI section chief Erin Strauss. However, the FBI section chief quickly realized how important Hotchner was during a case in Milwaukee. Ultimately Hotchner realized that his place was in the BAU much to his wife’s dismay.

Hotchner’s inability to successfully leave the BAU led to his wife Haley’s filing for divorce. Hotchner’s inability to balance both his work at the BAU and his family is a good example of an individual who has work-life balance problems.
Agent Hotchner is your run of the mill working a white color job whose high profile job ultimately cost him his marriage and son. Hotch is very good at what he does at the Behavioral Analysis Unit and is a great leader for the unit. He knows his stuff. Unfortunately for him, he is too good at what he does.

His refusal to work less or take a different position in the BAU ended up costing him his wife and son. Honestly his wife knew his profession before they got married and was aware of the toll it would take on their relationship. Despite knowing this, she still chose to marry him and have a child with him.

Hotch is just another man who chose his job over his family. Although his job is very important, he is amazing at it, and helps so many people it is important that he stop and remember his family. At some point there comes a time when you have to help yourself and family before you can help others.

I am sure in future Criminal Minds Episodes, there will be a time when Hotch looks back on all of the things he missed with his son and realizes that while saving lives was an amazing feat, his son is ultimately paid the price.

Every child deserves to grow up with both of their parents teaching them and providing life lessons. Being a behavioral specialtist, Hotch should know this. I am quite sure it is hard to see something when it is happening to you. He is just another example of how hard it is to be that successful at what you do and travel all over the place and be able to have a stable family.

To come home when it is all said and done. Agent Hotch will be the first to give advice to those in his unit. For instance, the advice he gives to Agent Morgan during the Hi-Lo Season finale, but when it comes to taking advise it is hard for him to swallow. It is erie how his friend from the FBI (the woman that appears in the Lo-Fi Episode) look just like his wife. It almost seems that he is connected to her in a way he can not shake. When they can’t act upon or seem to find their way to each other romantically.

He looked for the next best thing, which was his wife. He didn’t seem to really fight for their marriage and this could be the reason why. Because he was never really in love with her, just in love with the idea of being with someone who was like this other woman that he was lusting after. He comes off as a very good guy who just has some commitment issues. Hotch is the guy who values what he gets from his work more than what he can get out of a marriage and family.

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